- Feb 19, 2025
Big O Energy: The Power of Your Turn On with Caroline D'Arcy, Somatic Sex Educator & Mentor
- Brittney Ellers
- The Pelvic Pulse Podcast, Pelvic Health + Healing, Pleasure Practices
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The Pelvic Pulse Podcast S2 E45 With Host Brittney Ellers, Holistic Pelvic Physical Therapist
This episode has been long awaited - an honest and powerful conversation with sexological bodyworker, somatic educator and mentor Caroline D'Arcy, who Brittney had been working with for the last 4 months to cultivate and play with her sexual energy and expression. This conversation takes many roads - through Caroline's journey as a sex positive gal growing up in a Catholic all girls' school to how she views and shows up now working with women's sexual energy. Teaching women about it all is what makes her LIT UP and there's no doubt you'll learn something new by listening to her.
Listen in to his special episode to hear about Caroline's work as a somatic sexologist & women's coach, embracing sexuality as a woman and her journey to embracing her own and how somatic work has helped her let go of the shame around sexuality.
Tune in on Apple or Spotify, or catch the video on YouTube.
Feeling the Pulse on
0:00 How Brittney was invited into Carline’s world
6:11 Caroline’s upbringing and how she got into supporting women in pussy work
9:50 Being introduced to BDSM, the subculture, and finding people who were just as interested in sex as she was
15:55 When the period conversation changed to the sex conversation as a young girl and all the mixed messages about sex
21:22 What is sexological bodywork
“Shame is the reason we don’t talk about it”, the relationship between sex and religion, and the demonization of women
37:20 What is sexual energy and what are people actually seeking when they want sex?
41:30 One of the most incredible practices to work with shame
48:50 What happens in a sexual awakening, doing her own inner work, and holding others in their process with integrity
1:03:32 Responsibility, inner authority, power and turn on
1:14:14 Listening to your gut instinct and not overriding it, being where you are and notice what you say can say yes to
1:24:37 “Life’s a game” thread from all Caroline’s teachers
More on Caroline
Caroline D’Arcy has been called many things in her life, but her favourites include “Sex Geek”, “Pussy Professor”, and “Shame Whisperer”.
She has dedicated her life to supporting women on their journeys of orgasmic satisfaction and sexual awakening.
As a somatic sex educator and mentor, she’ll teach you what you wish you’d learned about your sexual energy, orgasms, and how your body really works—all through self-touch. She focuses on ownership of your inner power, believes orgasms are the best pathway to an authentic life, and insists on a depth of self-compassion that allows even the most armoured hearts to melt open.
She’s led thousands of women through interactive workshops, panel talks, and interviews for audiences ranging from Channel 4’s daytime show Steph’s Packed Lunch to speaking at NatWest’s International Women’s Day and holding workshops for the hedonistic sex party organisation Killing Kittens.
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